Venus, with its rulership in both Taurus and Libra, represents the "grace of form" and "the form of grace." Is it that our values and preferences determine what makes us feel beautiful? Yes.
Basically, if we want to feel "beautiful," we have to embrace our Venusian energy.
This in itself is a path of elimination and transformation. With Venus, we have to delve into everything we consider an act of vanity because Venus is not vain... she's Venus, a goddess!
Venus is not gendered... it's a consciousness. The consciousness of beauty, harmony, and pleasure. The sign where it is located is beautified by Venus, hence we are attracted to what it represents.
Each person's Venus, regardless of our gender, is what in English is called "alluring." If you say it out loud as if you were Marilyn Monroe, emphasizing the "u" and elongating the "u" as "uuuuuuuuu," or in other words, "aluuuuuuuuuuuring," that's how your Venus sounds. Have you tried it? Did it come out well?
Embodying our Venus consciously will not only make us feel more attractive but will also make us more selective. And there's a way to know if, when we engage in love relationships, we are moved by our Venus or by our emotional needs (the Moon). Because it is Venus that is going to be loved, adored, liked, ...
Now let's look at the "key" question to know what Venus thinks of our choices.
Ohhh l’amour…
Venus in Aries
Venus in Aries is attracted to and enjoys the thrill of conquest and the passion of the moment. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Am I ready to embark on this adventure, accepting both the intensity of the beginning and the possibility of a quick flame?"
Venus in Taurus
Venus in Taurus is attracted to and enjoys emotional stability and sensory pleasure. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Will this relationship bring security and comfort to my life, satisfying my senses and my need for stability?"
Venus in Gemini
Venus in Gemini is attracted to and enjoys intellectual stimulation and novelty. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Will this person keep my mind stimulated and share my love for variety and learning?"
Venus in Cancer
Venus in Cancer is attracted to and enjoys emotional care and deep intimacy. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Will I feel emotionally safe and nurtured in this relationship, being able to build a home and a family, whether literally or metaphorically?"
Venus in Leo
Venus in Leo is attracted to and enjoys mutual admiration and romantic drama. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Will this relationship allow me to shine and be adored, while I can also fully celebrate and admire my partner?"
Venus in Virgo
Venus in Virgo is attracted to and enjoys practical dedication and mutual improvement. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Will this relationship contribute to my personal growth and will I be able to offer the same level of care and improvement to my partner?"
Venus in Libra
Venus in Libra is attracted to and enjoys harmony, beauty, and balance in the relationship. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Will this relationship be based on equality, justice, and mutual respect, cultivating beauty and harmony together?"
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in Scorpio is seduced and delighted by the deep union of souls. Before diving into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Do I truly wish to intertwine my soul with this person?"
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in Sagittarius is attracted to and enjoys shared adventure and the freedom to explore. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Will this relationship expand my horizons and allow me to continue growing and exploring, both individually and together?"
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in Capricorn is attracted to and enjoys solidity, long-term commitment, and joint achievement. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Does this relationship have the potential to build a solid foundation and achieve shared goals over time?"
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in Aquarius is attracted to and enjoys individuality, innovation in the relationship, and intellectual connection. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Does this relationship respect my need for independence and foster a connection based on equality, freedom, and shared ideals?"
Venus in Pisces
Venus in Pisces is attracted to and enjoys the fusion of souls, compassion, and unconditional love. Before venturing into a relationship, one should ask themselves: "Will this relationship allow me to experience a deep spiritual connection and share a love that transcends the ordinary, nourishing both the soul and the heart?